I Got Smacked - Again - Today!
A few months back I wrote a blog about getting smacked. Read it Here:
It happened again today!
I was having a tough week. Things weren’t going in the direction I wanted them to go, or as fast as I thought they should go. I had been whining, feeling sorry for myself. The “blue funk cloud” was circling.
I was on the phone with a guy I was coaching and he said something that hit me hard. Just in passing he said,
“Our measure of entitlement has direct correlation to our measure of joy.”
Wow! Ouch! Smack!
As soon as I heard it, I had to admit, I was guilty. Much of my lack of joy was directly tied to what I thought I was owed. By God. From Others. From my own hard work.
A few days later I was reading from an author who reinforced this same idea. He wrote:
Have you ever noticed that people who are self-focused and narcissistic are usually really unhappy, if not depressed? But have you also noticed that people who are generally others-focused and more selfless are usually very happy? When we’re down, one of the best things we can do is serve somebody else. It’s the backdoor to joy. And it’s always unlocked. *
So let me ask you:
What’s your current level of entitlement?
How’s your current level of joy?
Are the two of them, in any way, related to your current state of appreciation and gratitude for the life you’ve been given and the kind of life your currently living? Just something to think about.
Instead of my coaching client paying me that day, I should have paid him (I didn’t !). But what he said really hit me hard and it continues to help me with my level of joy even today.
I trust it will help you as well.
Living on Purpose
P.S. - In the next few weeks, keep your eye out for a special coaching opportunity, that I’ve never offered. If you’ve ever wanted to have a coach but weren’t sure you could afford it, this maybe your opportunity.
*The quote is from Garden City, by John Mark Comer, p279